I just logged in and get this... Mike closed me!! And he didn't close me for the same reason that he closed my good friend (taking a break from dating). He closed me, and I quote, "we are communicating outside of [the site]"... WE ARE??? I don't seem to recall hearing from him for the last month. Am I missing something? He has my number, hasn't used it except to provide a lame and utterly unenthusiastic "thank you" in response to me thanking him for a great evening. How bizarre...
OK - so what to do?? Please reply with your comments.
Should I:
a) Just close him out and let it be done
b) Respond with a final message ("Happy holidays, hope all is well, take care")
c) Respond with an emphatic "We are???"
I think C would be incredibly comical, but may not be a good move in the long run. Thoughts?
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Nay,
I say go with option 'b' (and nothing more, nothing less than exactly what you had written). At this point, what do you have to loose with this guy? I know you were really interested in him, so this would give you the opportunity to subtley indicate you're still interested if indeed he is intending to commuminate outside of the site. And if he's not, then at least you can say you gave it your all.
Just my thought, for whatever it's worth. :)
-J, the friend that also got matched with Mike
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